Definition of a Successful Life

To laugh often and much;

to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; 

to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends;  

to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others;

to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or redeemed social condition;

to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived!

                    Ralph Waldo Emerson


Again, a new year’s resolution….

Last year it was to get this website off and running which happened, but then a lull.  This year I’m hoping to be more diligent in posting.

When you turn 70, time becomes very precious, because we realize that time is running out!  This became quite obvious to me this holiday season as three of our neighbors died within a few weeks of each other.  I’ve often read that there are more deaths at Christmas time.

At funerals, we learn new and interesting details about the deceased and, of course, we wish we could sit down one more time with them and talk.

I’ve known all three of these neighbors over 40 years–4 decades!!


Bert became my Union Church buddy several years ago when her husband Bill died and she could no longer renew her driver’s license.  Going back to church was on my bucket list, and Bert’s situation provided the push.  I often felt we were like a couple of high school girls giggling together on the drive to and from the church.  I knew her memory was slipping away, but it didn’t matter.  We simply enjoyed the here and now!

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Tim was an all around good guy, helping wherever needed, and serving our neighborhood for years as a Park District Trustee.  Tim enjoyed driving his spotless vintage convertible to lead our Golfview float in the 4th of July parade.  He loved his Schnauzer dogs over the years and I’m sure “Ernie” grieves for him today.

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Ann, as it turned out, worked as a window dresser for Carson Pirie Scott years ago.  How I’d love to talk with her more about that!  I have autographed copies of her children’s books, “Randal, the Flannel Camel” and “Mike’s Monarchs”.

I celebrate this snapshot of three kind, gentle souls who made this world a better place.  We will miss them, but we will remember them!

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